Hungarians do not need visa to enter the USA and use this opportunity to find work and stay for permanent living. Some women from Hungary might be with American men to achieve this aim.
Such opportunity will never be missed by some of them. Do not generalize – every case is different. Not all women are like that. But take the fact into consideration.
More and more often one can find examples of American-Hungarian couples whose relationships seem happy and nice. Within every year among all international marriages there are more conducted between Americans and Hungarians. Therefore, there are more multicultural families.
Many American men perfectly know about pretty and family-oriented Hungarian women. Most of them are trying to get some success in dating Hungarian, using different opportunities like finances, social status, future perspectives of American citizenship or even pure mutual feelings and real love. Who knows, what does that all means? Right, Eastern Europeans are trying to reach successful U.S. in hope of secure and perspective future for themselves and their future children. At the same time “wealthy Americans” knowing the fact they are being used, try to use Hungarians instead and get some extra bonuses for themselves from this multicultural relations.
American men often visit Hungary as tourists. Since Hungary is a member of European Union it is safe here. Architecture and natural landscapes make this country live miracle for American tourist. But not only nature and architecture attracts Americans in Hungary.
Often visits of Americans to Hungary end up with marriage. At the very beginning of relationship American man usually lives in Hungary, learning more about his future wife, Hungarian culture and cultural features, as well as aspects and differences of local life. And the woman tries to find out how serious his intentions are. The marriage of American man and Hungarian woman usually is held in Hungary in very interesting traditional style. Americans usually like that a lot.
After marriage couple may live in Hungary for some time, but then they usually leave the country for the U.S., usually for permanent living. The described above scenario happens very often.
Despite the fact that many consider American-Hungarian marriages just mutual benefit where husband gets pretty wife and for that gives her stable future, there are many happy American Hungarian couples who fell in love with each other and happily live together.
Beside natural beauty, American guys appreciate in Hungarian women their intelligence, erudition, knowledge of psychological behavior of the man, their feminine appearance and behavior, their instinctive care about family nest, children and husband.
American man loves how Hungarian wife cooks and takes care in the house. American man is almost never bored with his Hungarian wife as she is wise and interesting interlocutor.
Relationships are possible if the difference in mentality is not catastrophic
If we take into account the generalized type of Hungarian man, it is a demanding self-confident man. His authority should be recognized by everyone around, including his wife (girlfriend). This is a man with a strong character. This is often good and embodies the image of the “traditional man” that many Hungarian women like.
However, today more and more Hungarian women choose another type of man – a male-partner. This is a man who does not claim to demonstrate his “purely masculine” values, but seeks an equal partnership.
Such a man does not like excessive attention of a woman. On the contrary, he often has his hobby and does not like when he is prevented from doing it. Way “traditional” woman will always try to give advice or just would like to be in the center of attention, distracting 90% of the attention to herself. The male-partner will not like this.
Most American men value individuality and personal space. That is, they are the aforementioned “male-partners.” If a Hungarian woman has traditional views of a family where the man “rules the direction of the ship“, their relationship may have problems due to imbalance and lack of harmony. It’s like if wind was blowing on a sailboat from the north and south at the same time.
What else attracts Hungarian women to American men?
American men spend a lot of time with children from birth. For many Hungarian women, this fact is an indisputable advantage in choosing a future husband.
Separation of responsibilities, including changing diapers, caring, engaging in educational games and finding mental unity, as well as the desire to be an example to the son or a strong support for the daughter – these are the traits of a real American man.
Combined with a generally stable financial status, this attitude of the American man is very attractive to Hungarian women. Of course, if the Hungarian woman herself wants to have a family.
As always, it should be borne in mind that in America, as everywhere, there are different men and different women. So now we generalize. But this is a pleasant generalization.
What else attracts Americans to Hungarian women?
A little stress has a positive effect on the relationship. If a man in his country has already learned about relationships with many women, he is attracted to women from abroad. This is a kind of positive stress. It is short-lived, and although a man manages to adapt to it quickly, he seeks new experiences.
It is because of new experiences that some American men seek out meetings with foreign women. And here you can’t say that they choose only Hungarian women.
For the average American, it is not significant whether his friend is Hungarian or Slovak. It is important that she is from that part of “unknown” Europe. Europe, which is mystical, interesting and at the same time intriguing enough to attract attention.
There are many pluses which American men find in marriage with Hungarian women and apparently there are advantages for Hungarian women to get married with American men.
Intercultural marriages between Americans and Hungarians make both spouses more integrated in foreign culture, make them learn more about the world and improve themselves. Such marriages or relationships have positive influence on the couple in particular and for America in general, improving the gene pool of American nation.